They say that if you want something badly enough, you will find a way to make it happen. As it pertains to early FI, the question remains the same — How BADLY do you want it?
Up to this point in the blog’s history, I have spent very little time addressing the topic of personal expenses. When it comes down to how much a person spends on a given month, I feel that it is indeed 100% personal… There’s absolutely no way to generalize spending because everybody’s own situation is so unique.
So, for the most part, I don’t even bother to try… Instead, on this blog, I focus on the offensive gameplan on how to get to early FI… really early…
But in my own case, I am a single guy with no baggage… I can easily come and go as I please. I have no dependents to support and basically I only have to answer to myself each and every month.
Yup, pretty simple and boring… so far.
Of course, none of this was intended, but it just kind of happened… I got sick really early in my adult years which really changed the landscape for my own future…
But I digress, and moving right along…
I strongly feel that the ABSOLUTE key to reaching early FI is to figure out a way to house hack as much as possible… as soon as possible.
From as early on as high school, I was an extremely frugal guy. It must have been because I took on a weekend job bagging groceries my freshmen year which was hard work and paid next to nothing. Further, other co-workers and customers routinely dissed me on the regular because of my young age and menial position. You could say that was my own version of the school of hard knocks…
So, by the time I got to college, I really did know the value of a dollar… It was freekin’ hard work to earn $1!
Call it intuition, or not, but I have never been comfortable with the thought of paying high rent because I always looked at it as a wasteful expense that could be better utilized elsewhere…
In college, I saved on housing each and every semester by living far away from campus, with other roommates, in dilapidated old buildings.
I reasoned, “Why pay $1,500/month for a place to live when I can find an alternative way to scrape on by for only $500/month?”
Besides, when you’re in college, you’re only really ever at home to sleep… Well, at least that was my college experience…
Hey, every penny counts! An extra 10 pennies saved is another ramen noodle meal!
Outside of federal aid for tuition, house hacking was really the only way that made it possible for me to graduate college with practically zero debt…
When it comes to early FI, I think most people shoot themselves in the foot immediately after college. No one wants to shame themselves by returning home and living with family (unless you’re LAME like me)… Instead, we would prefer to show off to our peers and let them know of our newfound status in this world…
Most young graduates don’t miss a single beat and catch the first train to The City!
Lights, camera, action!
We have arrived in this world…
To the tune of paying 50% of our paychecks to slumlords!
I understand that when you are young it is EXTREMELY difficult to be very forward-thinking (planning way out into the future)… In your early 20s, plain and simple, you just want to have a good time all of the time!
But as Newton taught us, every action has an equal and opposite reaction…
The person who is forking over 50% of their paycheck each and every month is unable to save and invest 50% of their paycheck each and every month…
And when it comes to early FI, in order to get there quickly, you must save ABSOLUTELY RUTHLESSLY!
When I graduated college, the first thing I did was move back home and look for a job… Quite honestly, I was sick and tired of being piss broke and not even being fortunate enough to own my own vehicle…
Hey, give me a break! I came from a poor family… I thanked my lucky stars to even be fortunate enough to graduate from college… on time…
From 2007-2011, I lived at home with family (while all my buddies laughed at me)… but I saved a boatload in rent. 🙂
Of course, I had to take on adult responsibilities: car payments, healthcare insurance for parents, utilities, property taxes, etc., but regardless, it still beat having to pay rent in expensive Silicon Valley!
Granted, the thought of early FI never even crossed my mind until I was living in Newport Beach in November 2011 (again I house hacked with 3 other housemates so my rent was as CHEAP as possible), but luckily enough, I was doing most of the right things necessary to make it a realistic possibility… without even knowing it.
To this day, I still house hack and have never had the responsibility of paying a full mortgage. But living in Silicon Valley, you kind of have to do that (housing is REALLY, REALLY EXPENSIVE here)!
That is, if you want to reach early FI BADLY enough…
When it comes down to it, I was really inspired to live well below my means by my brother… I remember when I was in college and he first started working as a full-time engineer… He was saving boatloads of money every month, yet his lifestyle never evolved… and he STILL made me pay for my own cellphone bill!
That image stuck.
To this day, my brother was and still is an extremely frugal guy (yet he finds creative ways to live life to the fullest… For instance, he ONLY flies first class around the world… In fact, he just flew first class on Cathay Pacific on his way to hiking Everest).
When I moved back to the Bay Area in 2012, my brother and I both started buying real estate at roughly the
same best time (he started a few months before I did). But after he won his first few deals and I won two myself, we didn’t do what most people do — You move into your house and I’ll move into mine… and we’ll each pay our own mortgages!
Rather, we reached an agreement that would serve a higher purpose — We would help each other get to early FI. We would continue to live together (I have never lived in any of my own properties but for a brief moment I did have thoughts) so that we could split common bills and expenses in half, as opposed to going our separate ways and having to pay for everything solo.
Living with family can be a challenge, but we both knew that it was a necessary means to an end.
And it would only be for temporary… Sacrifice a little today so that you can have a lot more later.
That was the plan, anyway.
I’ll never forget the conversation we had when we were driving up to Tahoe in early 2013…
We spent the entire trip talking about early FI.
Living in exotic countries. Enjoying fine cuisine (for dirt cheap). Parading the cities at night.
I became totally convinced we were doing the right thing…
By the time we got to the slopes and met up with our other friend, I wasn’t even interested in snowboarding anymore… Instead, I wanted to go look at more houses and increase my cash flow further! 🙂
Early FI Takes Sacrifice and Creativity
That’s just my own story, I’m sure your own is much different… Or maybe there are some similarities?
In any case, I’m sure that you’ll agree — Getting to early FI takes a lot of sacrifice!
For those who aren’t single, or for those who have their own families and children, there are still many ways to house hack…
In a downmarket the WITHOUT A DOUBT best way to house hack is to take out a FHA loan (3.5% downpayment) on a multi-family residence (2-4 units). You live in one of the units and rent out all of the others. In a perfect scenario, the net cash flow from the rentals not only covers your mortgage, but you’re also able to generate positive cash flow after all expenses.
I know, I know, that sounds like crazy talk now in 2015… but this was entirely doable back in 2011, 2012… and it might still work in the Midwest and other more affordable markets.
In fact, I’ve met a few millionaires who became millionaires because of this FHA technique… After 1 year, they moved out and turned the multi-family property into a full rental (all units rented out) that was able to generate monster cash flow… So much free cash, in fact, that they could literally move into any house they wanted (rental or owner occupied) and have all their housing expenses paid for by the FHA multi-family
property gift from God.
As I mentioned earlier, it’s ridiculously expensive out here in Silicon Valley — Many married couples that I know (even those with small children) have gotten creative and taken the initiative to rent out either one or two bedrooms to reduce their housing costs substantially.
If that weren’t enough, it isn’t even far-fetched here to find a couple who will live in their own bedroom converted garage, or guest house, while they rent out the main residence.
Sure, these setups aren’t ideal, but neither is having to work 30+ years as a wage slave…
Housing is typically everyone’s largest monthly expense, so anything you save helps a lot!
Cool Kid or Free Bird?
Let’s face it — housing costs aren’t what they used to be!
Millennials have got it rough, no doubt…
But you don’t have to accept defeat! If the rules of the game suck (you live in NYC, Silicon Valley, or some other CRAZY EXPENSIVE city), play a different game!
I realize the thought of living with: family, friends, lots of roommates, or in somebody else’s home might make you feel embarrassed or ashamed… especially into your late 20s, or even 30s… Just realize that if you must insist on owning your own kingdom you are going to have to pay a hefty premium for such a luxury every step of the way!
For myself, I would much rather tough it out from say ages: 21-32, to be able to live FINANCIALLY FREE for the rest of my life, as opposed to being the guy who is paying an absurd mortgage each and every month… forever and ever…
Don’t get me wrong — I LOVE property.
Let me rephrase that — I LOVE rental property.
I have an ownership stake in 8 properties.
I just don’t believe in paying an insane amount of money each month just so that I can have a roof over my head.
By house hacking, an early FI enthusiast will be able to build up their net worth and cash flow much more quickly while their peers continue to plow their hard-earned income into high rents/mortgages.
And like they teach you in Investing 101, time is EVERYTHING! The sooner you get started, the sooner compound interest can work for you!
Now that I have accumulated some decent cash flow, my rule-of-thumb would be this:
If my cash flow can’t cover my rent + utilities, it’s too expensive and therefore I’m not interested…
That is why I have every intention of leaving Silicon Valley once I walk away from my W-2 job… But maybe I’ll come back once one of my properties here is paid off (thanks to my tenants!)?
And that’s what makes rental property so darn attractive — As long as you have a tenant in place, someone else will ALWAYS be working on your behalf and best interests.
Whereas a typical homeowner will spend their entire life paying down their own SINGLE mortgage, a real estate investor might be fortunate enough to have MANY mortgages paid off (that’s the plan!)… each one, courtesy of their tenants.
When you’ve got that going for you, you might as well go play on the beach for awhile… or a few years.
Like my brother taught me, it is possible to have the good things in life if you’re willing to think outside the box and hack your way to it!
Geographical arbitrage — I’m sure we will be discussing this in much more detail in the coming years… 🙂